One more month to our big day

I can't believe it.....  Just one more month to our big day!!!!!  Gone were the days I tot I be alone for the rest of my life. To have my dear to spend the rest of my life with, to start family with, to grow old together with. I am really a lucky guy!!

Really lucky because firstly, I not exactly the handsome type of guys, i know myself well enough. But plus point is that I am tall lah...  This I cant deny.. haa..  And I got the worst temper you can imagine. Guess I inherit this from my dad. So sometimes and til today, I still throw my bad temper at home, at work, outside, and even with dear...

And I am a selfish and greedy person. If got good things, I rather have them myself first then got balance then give others.. This I cant help it. It's a part of me already. And in this competitive little island, if you don't fight for yourself, you will sure to lose out...

And I don't like to lose to others and I don't like to give in. The wanting to win and show off is also the other not so good side of me. But I guess its not so easy to change all these. One way is to see the world with a open heart and don't take everything to heart so much. I try lah.... Say ez, do difficult..

Ever since I had dear by my side, I can share all I have with her because she is the other part of me who makes me complete. All my joy, sorrows I can pour out to her. She is my best friend and partner and there is no other person who can replace her in my heart.

On 30th Oct 2011, I be a complete person and I will have a complete life and I am so looking forward to it. Just hope I don't be a gan cheong spider on that day. LOLx...

2 weeks more to Guo Da Li...  Bought all the necessary things already less some small items which we will go down to chinatown to get. Cakes also booked already. 2 days before the GDL day, our new King size bed will arrive. Hope our small little room wont be to cram up.. haa..

31st Monthsary

Happy 31st Monthsary dear!! Our next Monthsary will be our GDL day. Really looking forward to it. By then our new bed and frame will be here. Woohoo.

Our Wedding Photos

Went to collect our wedding album as well as to try our AD wedding suits and gowns. I have grown a bit sideways since the photo taking in April. All of the pants and suits I wore in April are now a bit tight. Jialat.... Need to diet and diet... Dear must diet diet also then wear wedding gown then nice nice.. We jiayou together ok.

Here a preview of our wedding album.

Many many things coming up this month.... starting to feel the stress.....

1) Buy GDL things 11 Sep
2) Make up trial for dear 17 Sep
3) Food tasting 20 Sep
4) Meet up with hotel coordinator to discuss about wedding theme and other things 26 Sep

Still got to buy my AD leather shoes, shirts...

MUA for dear's 2 sister confirmed liao.

Counting down to our wedding day already... about 53 days nia.....

Happy 27th Monthsary!!

Happy 27th Monthsary dear!!! 27 mths = 2 years and 3 mths..

wow... really fast...

Few more mths is our big day le.. So looking forward to it!!!!!

More of Matthias...

Matthias really looks different day by day.. Its really amazing to see how he grow so quickly..

More picture of Matthias.... and us......

nice anot this pram... its a gift from dear & me.

Matthias

My nephew Matthias Tan Jian Kai decided to come out to this world today.....

My mother told me I can't go see him yet because I haven 拜太岁. So my mother went to temple to pray for everyone.

Then the next day dear & I went to TMC to see him.. So exciting.....

He is the first next generation of our entire family, my first nephew, my parents' first grandchild.

See so cute.. haa



This picture is taken by my brother when Matthias just came out of his mother's stomach.



It's a boy!!

He looks really like my elder brother, especially the lips..

dear carrying Matthias..

Building of our love nest starts

We went to see our love nest and were glad that construction had finally started..

4rm flat at Montreal Dale BTO, Montreal Drive, Sembawang. Estimated completion in Q1 2014...

Really hope it will be completed earlier in mid 2013 maybe... Can't wait to have a place of our own.....


neighbouring block at the back



front right is where our block is...

this will be the mscp

block opp ours

Small plot of land actually.. Within walking distance to Sembawang MRT and sun plaza...

There will be a coffeeshop below one of the blocks... Great!! Hope it sells good coffee and prata.. hee...

Happy Lunar New Year!!

Happy Lunar New year everyone... Its the year of the rabbit.. Wishing everyone gong xi fa cai, tu fei men ji!!

Giant Lo Hei at our house last night during our reunion dinner....... So many salmon slices... yummy...

Photo shoot clothes trying.....

Today went to IMM where our Bridal Shop Double Up is to try out the clothes for our photoshoot.. Poor dear keep trying and trying different gowns... many of which she did not know how to put on...... Tiring but was quite fun....

These are the gowns we chose in the end.....

Black & White

White with brown outline...

Red evening gown

outdoor gown

me in black...

we will go back again a few days before our photoshoot in April to try the gowns and shirt, pants and jackets after they are adjusted to fit us..... Hope we don't put on too much before that...

Haa....

Just married plate!!

First task completed.... Our Just Married plate!!!!!!

Nice anot? hee... Cost $39 dollars.. $33 for the plate and $6 dollars for the wording....