Some updates:
Kai Ling dear & I, our wedding will be held on 30th Oct 2011. So to all friends and relatives, start saving money arh.... keke...
So you might be asking when did I pop the question? Some of you might already know coz I did post up some pictures here on this blog.. Its actually last year on my birthday at Bintan, Indonesia.
Paying for booking fee for our new HDB, paying for the Bridal package and paying the deposit for the hotel... Its really not cheap to get married. haaa...
But the process is really fun.... Actually I did want to get married earlier, but we stick to the agreement to have it in 2011...
Basically, I am a person who do not like to wait. I rather make things happen, then wait for things to happen.. In other words, I am a impatience person lah.... LOLx..
Actually I m kind of a "control freak".
From Wikipedia,
In psychology-related slang, control freak is a derogatory term for a person who attempts to dictate how everything around them is done. It can also refer to someone with a limited number of things that they want done a specific way; professor of clinical psychology Les Parrott wrote that "Control Freaks are people who care more than you do about something and won't stop at being pushy to get their way."[1]
In some cases, the control freak sees their constant intervention as beneficial or even necessary; this can be caused by feelings of superiority, believing that others are incapable of handling matters properly, or the fear that things will go wrong if they don't attend to every detail. In other cases, they may simply enjoy the feeling of power it gives them so much that they automatically try to gain control of everything around them.
Its really true. At work, there are many things that I rather do it myself than let other people do. For example applications or modules that were developed by me. I wouldnt want people to touch them. I rather want to "control" who changes or touches the program. Because I simply don't trust them. And if someone does changes my codes, I will criticize on their poor logic or coding... I think I just being nasty sometimes.. Haa... Sometimes I think I should learn to let go and not get so work up....
At home, I tend to plan and execute things rather to rely on my brothers to do... Sometimes, I would blame them for not taking the initiative to take up the tasks or blaming them for not learning to do things... Maybe its because I nvr give them the chance to do... So in the end, my parents trust me to do the things rather than asking my brothers... So I guess its just me...
Outside of work or home, be it any trips to anywhere, any events to organise, I would more often or not rely on myself to do the bookings, the telephone enquiries rather than to wait for others to do, in which some people might take forever or even never, to take action..
In conclusion, I must have control of what is happening around me.. If not I will lose the confidence in what I do...
Anyway because I haven been blogging much, so I though I write more today since I got the mood. Haa...
Many of my friends have got married. Never have I imagine that one day, I would get married too.. And that one day is coming soon, though its like 1 year and 5 mths more.. Seconds, by seconds, time is passing non-stop...
Kai Ling dear, she got a really good temper.. That why we never get into any quarrels or arguments so far... I am the one with the bad temper you see.. So you will know whose fault it is if one day we do quarrel.. But I really hope not.. Keke...
I am really a very lucky guy. Can't express the joy I having now in words. But having the tot of spending the rest of my life with dear... I think I am the luckiest guy on earth..
Ok lah, think I better stop here.. I will try to blog more.. I normally blog on events with pictures.. but recently, cutting budget on outings. Need to save money liao.. For the wedding preparation and then our flat in a few years time..
So stay tuned..... =)
for bbq dinner...